Wednesday, December 22, 2021



             Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!
Utah is a beautiful winter wonderland with fresh snow, but requires    good boots, salt and care! I still have a lot to learn about living here.


                                    My street (my house would be the next on the left)
         My back yard, which is filled with birds coming to my feeders
                                                         The Provo Temple

There is wonderful entertainment available in Provo. I especially loved the Cambridge King's College Singers, the BYU folk ensemble and Christmas Around the World performances.


Snow and cold didn't stop a great 9th birthday party for Julie's twins Stephanie and Elise Carlston from celebrating in their backyard in Millcreek (Salt Lake City). They were born on 12-12-12!




                                 Elise with Santa Lucia crown
I don't think the Mexican pinata tradition was intended for the snow, but where there's candy, weather does not interfere!

Julie and the younger grand-daughters and I enjoyed a lovely                                      production of the Nutcracker ballet.

              Simon's piano recital was zoomed from home in South                                                Jordan (Daybreak). He's amazing!

We enjoyed a beautiful creche exhibit at their church building, reminding me of the 34 (?) year tradition in Palo Alto, which has been virtual the last two years during the Pandemic. The village tradition comes from Italy, but shared throughout the world today. Here is a brief history: During the French Revolution, Christianity was under attack. Specifically Catholicism. All symbols of Christian worship were banned. In Provence, France, the people got around that by making small replicas of the townspeople and setting them up in their homes in small vignettes. Then at Christmas, they would hide the baby Jesus, Mary, and Joseph amongst the little village scene. The devotion and faith of these people was truly courageous. Here are a few samples from Russia, Africa,and Europe.





One of my new friends,, Ramona Miller, recently moved from Midway. She was baptized awhile back in the Pasadena, CA ward where our ex-Palo Alto friend Gerard Jugant is now bishop). Such a small world!! We recommend the Tru Religion Pancake and Steakhouse (our brunch was amazing!) in Orem.
I recently indulged in and completed this 1000 piece Mucha puzzle.
What a joy to celebrate the marriage of Jameson Welch (who grew up in Palo Alto and served a mission in London)and Erika Boifeuillet at Tom Taylor's Bright building. His mom Deanne had lots of nice words to share.

I continued my holiday open house tradition on December 18. So many fond memories of my 49 year (minus mission and pandemic Christmases) tradition and of all my friends and students who used to come. I got so busy talking and hostessing that I neglected to take many photos. Here are just a few of my wonderful old and new friends:

Andres and Kelly (Chinchilla) Suarez, whom I knew in Ecuador. Both were Venezuelan refugees. Her family were friends and he was a missionary there in 2015.
Nettie Wise is one of my oldest friends from Palo Alto, figuratively and literally (she is turning 98 in February 2022).
Tom & Katy Taylor and Elena and Steve Soelberg, all former Palo Altans.

Alma Umber served in the Santiago, Chile Temple with me. We flew down there together from SLC, just before Christmas just 4 years ago.

While most of the family was still in town, we had dinner and a "white elephant" exchange, with some funny gifts costing about $5.

Marc surprisingly chose the perfect gift, a little carrier for their dog Marty, who was not invited to the party this time! 

     Aaron is trying to decide whether to steal a gift or pick one still                                          wrapped in the center.

   After dinner we listened to and sang carols and Christmas songs                                        accompanied mostly by the kids.

Luke and John played their fast and lively "Sleigh Ride" which they played for their recital this week. I enjoyed their sisters' recitals also. 

Thank you all for the wonderful cards and emails you have sent. They warm my heart.
May your Christmas be joyful. May you know that God knows and loves you unconditionally and always. Our savior Jesus Christ is our perfect example, teacher, advocate, and friend. He gave his life that our every mistake or weakness can be repaired and forgiven. He wants us all to be happy and successful, and to comfort and bless the lives of all who struggle, who are judged unfairly, who may live and believe differently than we. May 2022 be filled with renewed hope and peace.
Here are some special programs to enjoy:
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist
https://www.byutv.org/player/f9799f93-417b-4b06-8e2c-8b3141ba02ac/christmas-devotional-christmas-devotional---2021?utm_source=email&utm_medium=em&utm_campaign=Merry%20Christmas&utm_id=Email

https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/#inbox/FMfcgzGllVrzpjMCkQfCHZQNtTSwpgjr

I meant to put this in my last blog. As we send wishes for peace and joy at this Christmas season, let us remember that peace must be constantly won. Remembering the sacrifice of so many (mostly young men) helps us realize that life itself is a gift, and that peace is not free and should never be taken for granted. And we can assuage our grief by serving others.

Eighty years ago this month, a surprise attack by Japanese forces occurred at Pearl Harbor in Hawaii. The attack killed more than 2,000, injured 1,178, and led to America’s entry into WWII. During the attack, six U.S. battleships were sunk, and more than a dozen others were damaged. The Japanese also destroyed 300 airplanes. The attack lasted less than two hours, and the following day, President Franklin D. Roosevelt asked Congress to declare war on Japan.

The USS Shaw explodes after a Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor, December 7, 1941

The volunteers at Stories Behind the Stars are working on an ambitious project to tell the story of each Pearl Harbor casualty. As we mark the 80th anniversary of that fateful day, here are a few stories they’ve gathered:

Theodore Q. Jensen

Radioman 3rd Class Theodore Q. Jensen was born in a small Utah farming town. His father was an immigrant from Denmark and instilled a love of country and patriotism in his children. After graduating from high school, Theo and seven other young men from his tiny community enlisted together. Theo served in the U.S. Navy aboard the USS Oklahoma. On the morning of December 7th, he was granted a day pass and was gathering his gear aboard the ship when it was hit by several torpedoes and capsized. Theo was among those killed. There were mass casualties that day, and many of the fallen were buried without proper identification, including Theo. Back home, Theo’s family and the entire community mourned his death. They named the local American Legion post in his honor. In 2015, Congress authorized an initiative to exhume unidentified remains, and properly identify them through DNA analysis. On December 17, 2020, Theo’s remains were identified, and last June, he was reinterred in Delta, Utah.

Jack G. Smalley

Jack G. Smalley grew up in Toledo, Ohio, in a family that had a love for the sea. All four Smalley brothers served in the U.S. Navy. One died of an illness in 1932 during active service, but the tragedy did not keep Jack from enlisting. Shortly after his 18th birthday, Jack enlisted in the Navy in Detroit, Michigan. For a time, both Jack and his brother Bud served on the USS Arizona. Their reunion lasted nearly a year until Bud was reassigned to a ship in the Atlantic. Jack stayed on the Arizona and was near the portside anti-aircraft gun when the Japanese attacked. Eight armor-piercing bombs penetrated the ship. One fell on the deck near turret No. 2, causing a large explosion that sent Jack into the rolling waters of Pearl Harbor. News of his death did not reach his parents for five days. Jack’s body was recovered, and he was laid to rest at the National Memorial Cemetery of the Pacific. Jack’s mother, Gladys Smalley, channeled her grief by immersing herself in wartime efforts. She sold war bonds, stitched chevrons on sailors’ uniforms, served sandwiches at the USO, and knit blankets for servicemen. She was also the director of a mother’s club that provided money for poor sailors to buy basic provisions. Her husband, Vern Smalley, said, “I guess that doing all the work she can for servicemen and organizations, and for the bond drives, is her way of showing how she feels about Jack.”

Wednesday, December 8, 2021

         Highlights of the end of November and first week of December


BYU women's soccer team advances to the national finals after beating Santa Clara U. December 3. Unfortunately they lost the national championship in penalty kicks to Florida State. 

Thanksgiving 2021 all together was fun, though we missed our California cousins and my siblings



Fun to have my three daughters: Anne (came for the week from England), Emily and Julie all together after 2 years of Covid.
We have a 'personalized' version of "We Gather Together" that we (many of us!) have been singing for 70(?) years before we eat.


                        Our Thanksgiving has always been 'potluck'

After dinner we sing and perform talents. Below are a few of our performers








        A casual group shot. Do you like John Carlston's pink socks?

         The following day we took a walk in barren Provo Canyon:




And then it's on to Christmas: 

                 Lucie and Emily participated in the local Santa 5k

Kelly and George sang with their HS madrigals group

    The Mission Training center where I volunteer is brightly lit.

Aaron celebrates his 15th birthday (with Hanukkah candles on cake!)
and then played Bach on his cello in a recital

One of my great joys is decorating for Christmas. With a new house I've had to figure out where to put things that had their special place in my Palo Alto home. As you can see, there is little snow left on the mountains, but lots of snow is predicted for tomorrow (in town, too!)
Let it snow! (I'm not so sure about that!)


Julie, Phoebe and I spent a few fun hours at the Christkindlmarkt (many many booths with very authentic, imported items from Germany, Austria and Scandinavia), at Heritage Park ("This is the Place" monument where Brigham Young and his party of pioneers first entered the Salt Lake Valley in 1847).
Then we went back 2 days later to hear Kelly, George and Ming Lu perform with their high school German classes. 

                  Ming learned to play the accordion just in time!


BYU has wonderful shows all year, but the BYU folk dance groups' Christmas Around the World was exceptional...a feast for the eyes and ears. The costumes and dances were spectacular! (no photos during the show). Then tonight I attended a concert of this folk ensemble, which was equally amazing! What talent these students offer us!



Our ward Christmas party was fun. Emily Deans (one of our friends from Palo Alto) leading the singing during the nativity pageant.

I enjoyed having dinner and practicing my Spanish with the sweet Vicente family from Guatemala who have been learning about our church.
May you have a wonderful 2 weeks before Christmas when we celebrate our savior Jesus Christ's coming into the world to teach us how to live, love and care for each other. May we feel peace and joy as we strive to follow his example.