Sunday, August 25, 2024

Two weeks of Joys and Sorrows: Reunions, weddings, memorial and funeral services, Olympics, and more

Slapstick, loud and funny play at the Orem Hale Theatre


Sad news of the passing of kind, smart, level-headed 56 year old Susan Wojcicki, leader at Google and CEO of You-Tube. I have long-admired the Wojicki family, friends of my kids in Palo Alto.

What an amazing Olympic Games, with spectacular performances by so many outstanding athletes...competitive but bringing together this often too disconnected world. I especially loved the track and basketball events, but love it all!



Sara Gilman and I flew from hot (but still beautiful) Utah to the pleasant California Bay Area
to visit with friends (Sara, Nanci Thomander, Wendy Parry)...


and to attend the wonderful memorial service for Monajo Ellsworth, who had such an impact on many of our lives. Below among others are her wonderful children: Marie and Ann (3rd and 4th from left), Michelle and John (extreme right). 

Youngest daughter Michelle (2nd from left) gave a complete (almost) and humorous talk that really captured her mom
....and the chance to reminisce with our group of longtime Palo Alto friends: Karen Bradshaw, Sara Gilman, Ludwiga and Mike Covert, Marguerite Hancock, Miriam, Leanne and Peter Giles, Ken Allen (Sue was busy in the kitchen), Darryl and Nanci Thomander (and others not pictured).
I also had the opportunity to visit several friends, some not well, and to join with other moms of our long-ago elementary school children (and two favorite teachers)

and to celebrate the birthday of dear friend Ludwiga Covert with a delicious, beautiful lunch hosted by Nanci Thomander
Top: Sue Allen, Ludwiga, Nanci, Marguerite Hancock; 
Bottom: Miriam, Leanne Giles, Colette Taylor, Karen Bradshaw (we have all been friends about 50 years!)

I spent a fabulous day at the Marin Headlands just outside the Golden Gate Bridge, so called because it reminded explorer John C. Fremont in 1846 of Istanbul's Golden Horn. It is the only break for 1000 miles along the coast and is the gateway to San Francisco Bay, draining 12 rivers, 40% of California's water, into the Pacific Ocean. The channel is one mile wide and 3 miles long. The weather was perfect!






Lunch beside the bay in Sausalito after the morning in one of my favorite places in the world...Muir Woods in Marin County....with my brother Roy and sister-in-law Julie who recently moved into their beautifully remodeled home near the campus in Berkeley.


a tribute to John Muir:
"Champion of the Natural World"

"When we try to pick out anything by itself, we find it hitched to everything else in the Universe." - John Muir

A leaf, a flower, a stone—the simple beauty of nature filled John Muir with joy. Muir shared his love of nature through writing and inspired people to protect our country's wild places, fueling the formation of the National Park Service and the modern conservation movement. Muir loved all things wild and saw humans as one small part of nature. He valued the natural world not only for economic gain, but for its beauty and healing powers. Muir championed the revolutionary idea that wild spaces should be set aside for all to enjoy.

John Muir was born on April 21, 1838, in Dunbar, Scotland, to Daniel and Ann Gilrye Muir. His father was a strict disciplinarian, and young John often found solace in the countryside. His grandfather, a nature lover, would take him on walks through the Scottish countryside, fostering his early appreciation for nature.

In 1849, when Muir was 11, the family immigrated to the United States, settling in Wisconsin. They started a farm, and Muir's nature lessons continued amidst the American wilderness. Despite his father’s insistence on hard labor and religious study, Muir managed to invent mechanical devices and immerse himself in the study of nature. He enrolled at the University of Wisconsin in 1860, where he studied biology, botany, and geology, laying the academic foundation for his future explorations.


These magnificent coastal redwoods live to 2,000 years, are the tallest trees (up to 320'high, 27' wide) on the planet, regenerate, intertwine their shallow roots, are resistant to insects, great for building, and so beautiful.
It's miraculous to observe the balance of nature if left undisturbed. For example, part of the stream was cleaned of debris, the fish died, so rocks and soil were put back and all is well!

In 1945, delegates from all over the world met in San Francisco to write and sign the charter of the United Nations. They gathered in Muir Woods to honor FDR, visionary of the UN, who had died a month before. He believed that National Parks and attention to forests and ecology promote peace. Teddy Roosevelt, his distant cousin and whose niece was Eleanor Roosevelt, was also a strong proponent of wilderness and parks.
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The next two days I enjoyed many classes from 8:30 AM to 8:30 PM at BYU Education Week in Provo. I took notes and photos because I knew I wouldn't remember more than a small percentage of what I heard!
from teaching kids to be resilient

to art (Notre Dame Cathedral, and Greek and Roman art), to heroines of the Old Testament...

to neurodiversity and Mindfulness (taught by my daughter Emily)

To tips for supportive grand-parenting 

To many Gospel topics

To religious art by Heinrich Hoffman

To the 12 Tribes of Israel and much much more! (This old clock is on the Western Wall in Jerusalem).

The following day I attended the beautiful temple wedding of Prince Selassie and Jessie Kportufe in the Timpanogos Temple in American Fork, Utah. Jessie and her sister Elsie from Ghana, but BYU grads and great women, lived with me in Palo Alto during the Covid pandemic until we all moved to Utah in late 2020-early 2021.


At the reception at Grand America Hotel in Salt Lake City: Elsie with her mom and brother. Several guest came all the way from Africa.


and the funeral of friend Bob Galbraith from Palo Alto. The family moved from California to Kaysville several years ago, but there were many old friends in attendance. Bob was an incredibly talented musician, playing violin with the San Francisco opera orchestra and organ and other instruments for years. He was also extremely kind, loved to build, and had a nice sense of humor. His dear wife Janet played my favorite piece, Ashokan Farewell, written in 1982 for Ken Burn's Civil War documentary, but in the waltz style of a Scottish lament. She's an exquisite violinist also.





Also on Saturday  August 24th, wonderful friend and inspiration Susan Petersen Gong, passed away. Here is part of her obituary. She is the sister-in-law of Elder Gerrit W. Gong for those who know him.

" She passed peacefully in her sleep, just as she hoped. Since her cancer diagnosis in November 2022, we have treasured the tender and joyful time we have been able to spend together with her. Here is one of her favorite poems:

On Becoming a God Adonis Remembers the World

Of all I leave, most beautiful is the sunlight.

Next come stars at nightfall, and the moon's face,

and in season, peaches, muskmelons, and pears.

Praxilla, 5th Century B.C.E. 

There will be no public funeral. Each person is invited to have their own personal memorial of Sue, the way she would have wanted it."



































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