Sunday, September 27, 2020

 Fall has arrived officially, but warm summer weather continues.  This fall in Palo Alto no school buses run, no kids ride to school on bikes, no laughter is heard from the neighboring elementary school. Students are at home behind computer screens, hopefully learning something?

I was sad to lose several friends this past week, along with Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, powerful voice for justice and women's rights. One final barrier broken: She is the first woman and the first Jewish person to lie in state in the U.S. Capitol. Who will replace this remarkable woman? President Trump is determined to have his choice confirmed before the November 3rd election.



I left with smokey skies in the Bay Area and headed to Pinecrest, a 3-hour drive from here, in the Sierra, where the smoke cleared early this week. Nearby Yosemite National Park is closed due to the many area fires still burning. I spent 4 wonderful days hiking, swimming, boating in the lake and relaxing with 2 siblings, spouses, and family, all from San Diego. My sister Irene and family have not missed their Pinecrest week in 29 years!

My cup, as well as my brother Brion's, felt full...so nice to be in the mountains with fun people! and 4 lively dogs! and very few others.







The lake is being emptied through the dam leaving just enough water  to freeze, so the level is lower than in the summer, and the crowds have left. So refreshing is the sound of the river rushing down the hill. The national forest & park were closed recently due to fires.





A fellow senior missionary in Ecuador shared a photo of the young women of our ward performing a traditional dance. May we build positive and uplifting memories and treasure our positive images of this strange and challenging pandemic time. I'm grateful for more time for re-connection with family and friends, albeit virtually, more time for reading and reflection on what is truly important to me: justice, mercy, commonality, the ways that differences can help us grow. I am especially grateful for small and simple things that bring me joy. I recognize that many are suffering greatly, but hope they can find a measure of peace also.



Monday, September 21, 2020

None of us will forget 2020. This barbed wire hula hoop is an interesting metaphor! Ouch! Covid pandemic, fires, hurricanes, economic crises, election divisions, racial and civil unrest, education challenges, and more....

School days are not what they were in the 1950's or even in early 2020. Whether to go to school or learn on-line is a tough question!

In Palo Alto and many places it's online education.

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Children, adults and especially teens are social creatures

In Indonesia (and elsewhere), students reported the home-learning program to be even more stressful than regular classrooms. Some of the common reasons for this went along the lines of: "Normal classes may have been difficult, but having friends makes it so much more manageable and less stressful. Online classes take out the benefits of having friends to socialize with and being stuck alone with nothing but assignments." Teachers also struggle to manage online learning.

Below, the remains of our beautiful local church Camp Lehi in the Santa Cruz Mountains.

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A message from our local leaders:"When you combine the fire, the quarantine, the civil unrest, and other personal losses that many of us have experienced, it can be overwhelming. In the last general conference, Apostle Elder Holland gave a talk entitled “Perfect Brightness of Hope.” This quote from his talk captures our testimony, 'I testify that the future is going to be as miracle-filled and bountifully blessed as the past has been. We have every reason to hope for blessings even greater than those we have already received because this is the work of Almighty God, this is the Church of continuing revelation, this is the gospel of Christ’s unlimited grace and benevolence.'   While these are turbulent times, we know the Lord continues to be involved in the little details of our lives. He knows what we are going through individually and as a church, and He will use the circumstances and experiences to strengthen us individually and collectively."  We love you and hope that you and your families continue to see the Lord’s hand in your lives."

If you or someone you know is struggling with discouragement or depression, especially at this time, here is a short (11 min. video)

https://youtu.be/IrNqGqy5kbQ

Smoke has polluted our skies, though pollution makes for spectacular sunsets...the sun is a giant red ball each evening before a red moon arises.  Where are the clouds with a silver lining?  Again generous donors step forward to help  evacuees and those many who have lost their homes. Added to the smoky skies, Labor Day weekend temperatures in the San Francisco Bay Area were record-breaking. In Palo Alto we had 2 days of 106-7 degrees!


My first get-away during the pandemic has been a trip to Reno. 
Notice the smoke layer, the fire progressing eastward and the blue of gorgeous Lake Tahoe...




         The El Dorado fire near Los Angeles added to the air pollution

The first day at the Truckee River, the second day in the morning on Mount Rose with the smoke coming, then Lake Tahoe cloaked in smoke (normally one can see across this crystalline blue lake). We swam anyway...so refreshing.

We loved having the chickadees eat seeds out of our hands




We swam and paddle-boarded and enjoyed the lake despite the smoky skies. And met people from all over, including Brazil. Coincidentally 
my son's grandmother-in-law, Aurea Lima, just turned 97. She is full of life, and love for family and friends. It is unbelievable that she had the coronavirus and was able to recover. She is an amazing lady who lives in Curitiba, Brasil! I was honored to stay in her home in 2006.


In California, the skies are all cloudy/smokey all day

In Utah, the skies were mostly blue....


The Carlstons...some of my Utah grandchildren with my son-in-law

Thursday, August 6, 2020

Nearing the end of a momentos Summer 2020

John Lewis, Towering Figure of Civil Rights Era, Dies at 80 (on July 17, 2020)

Images of his beating at Selma shocked the nation and led to swift passage of the 1965 Voting Rights Act. He was later called the conscience of the Congress.

More than a half-century later, after the killing in May of George Floyd, a Black man in police custody in Minneapolis, Mr. Lewis welcomed the resulting global demonstrations against police killings of Black people and, more broadly, against systemic racism in many corners of society. He saw those protests as a continuation of his life’s work, though his illness (pancreatic cancer) had left him to watch from the sidelines. He was instrumental in passing the Voting Rights act of 1965.

Former President Barack Obama, said in his eulogy at the funeral of John Lewis — ("he was the first of the Freedom Riders, head of the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee, youngest speaker at the March on Washington, leader of the march from Selma to Montgomery, Member of Congress representing the people of this state (Georgia) and this district for 33 years, mentor to young people, including me at the time, until his final day on this Earth — that he not only embraced that responsibility, but he made it his life’s work."


"(The Apostle) James wrote to the believers, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing.”

"It is a great honor to be back in Ebenezer Baptist Church, in the pulpit of its greatest pastor, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., to pay my respects to perhaps his finest disciple — an American whose faith was tested again and again to produce a man of pure joy and unbreakable perseverance — John Robert Lewis."
(That this could be said of all of us as we face trials, including the challenges, repercussions, losses of this pandemic, racial violence or personal tragedies)
Lewis was instrumental in passing the 1965 Voting Rights Act. The fifteenth amendment to the U.S. constitution, ratifies Feb. 3,1870, prohibited any denial by nation or state of the right to vote (to males) on the basis of color, race, previous condition of servitude, but as we all know there was much obstruction, though illegal: literacy tests, poll taxes, intimidation.
Many feel a new voting rights act is overdue. John Lewis discusses in June, 2020
Representative John Lewis and other House Democrats arrive at a news conference about updating the Voting Rights Act of 1965, outside the Capitol on June 25, 2019.

Women also fought hard for the right to vote. In 1893, women in New Zealand could vote in parliamentary elections. Finland (then part of Russia) won universal and equal suffrage in 1906. 
The women below were arrested in 1917, at a college student protest in front of the White House. Lou Henry Hoover, Stanford University class of 1898, was a leader. She and others had voted in California state elections of 1914. She wished her A.B. in geology stood for "a boy", as so many opportunities were unavailable to women.





Women  (with a million signatures) protest in NYC in 1917
After a half century of effort and agitation, American women were given the right to vote, nationally, in 1920, with 19th amendment. However, male and female Native Americans could vote only in 1924, and Asian Americans in 1952.
It seems that war influenced voting and other rights for women in several countries:
Denmark & Iceland (1915); Russia (1917); Germany and U.K. (photo below, 1918)
Japan and France (1944); India: (1947). Some other voting rights for women gained: Brazil (1932); Turkey (1934); Greece (1952); Mexico and China (1953); Egypt (1956); Honduras(1955); Switzerland (1971); Iraq (1980); and finally Saudi Arabian women in 2015.
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Centennial Celebration of Women's Suffrage: One (Wo)man, One Vote
 August 18 marks 100 years since the 19th Amendment was ratified, extending the right to vote to women in the U.S. The work was decades in the making, thanks in part to the dedication and perseverance of women like Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Susan B. Anthony, Ida B. Wells, and Alice Paul. 

 
It is our right, duty, and privilege to vote responsibly and to allow and encourage all our fellow citizens to do so.
We all have women in our lives we honor, most are considered just ordinary, but what life is really ordinary?
 I was pleased to celebrate my Aunt Julie's 91st birthday with 3 of her 4 children, my cousins, their spouses and one grand-daughter in cousin Doug's garden in Napa, CA. (social distancing by households!). She has made the most of those years, among her many activities raising a wonderful family!

We all miss our grandparents' big beautiful home at Stanford (now the historical home belongs to the university and has been re-landscaped) where we cousins, aunts and uncles, kids, grand kids spent so many happy occasions, especially Thanksgiving. Aunt Julie was born in Switzerland while her father was on sabbatical, but this was her home. I also lived my first few years here.
Despite the lingering, even increasing Covid pandemic, I'm grateful for walks, bike rides, and small hikes at the baylands and Palo Alto's Foothills Park. Everything is dry, as we rarely get even one drop of rain from May to November.

Manzanita and madrone are abundant red-barked trees. 
The white line the other side of the bay is salt!


The park is rich in redwoods, oaks, cedar, madrone, bay, deodora, and other trees. Baby lizards and snakes, fish and birds enjoy the trails, as do we humans.

Picnic tables, bbq's and playgrounds are off limits still.
Schools throughout the U.S. (and the world) are debating the possibility/ wisdom of at-school versus online distance learning, or some modification. Palo Alto education will be online at all levels, at least this fall. All alternatives are challenging for teachers, kids and parents (especially those working from home). Let's wear masks and social distance and get this pandemic over with!

My best discovery of the week is the cello music of Croatian Stjepan Hauser. It is absolutely heavenly music...brings tears to my eyes. So many beautiful concerts. A tribute to the human spirit during these pandemic times.https://www.instagram.com/hausercello
https://www.facebook.com/hauserofficial  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dp4UrPsHO3g
How lucky we are to have the technology and many generous individuals and organizations that allow us during these challenging times to be inspired and entertained. Take advantage of the music, films, podcasts, etc. available to us!
I know this corona virus cannot last forever. If we learn the lessons of our requested/required sacrifices, discipline, and meet challenges with faith, goodwill and wisdom, we will have progressed as individuals and communities. Somehow we can recover our jobs, our education, our health. A big thank you to all who dedicate themselves to our well-being.

Friday, July 17, 2020



July 2020, a month to celebrate and remember....a little nostalgia
Elsie, Jessie and I celebrated July 4th together with a delicious waffle and egg breakfast, watched "Lincoln" and sat on the lawn in front of Hoover Tower (most of the tower houses the library of War and Revolution) at Stanford to enjoy listening to Jim Welch play patriotic songs and hymns on the carillon bells up on top of the tower. Social distancing and masks kept us safe as we visited with others listening.
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Jenna and Johnny Hickey are a fun family in our ward

Jessie and Elsie listening to the carillon hymns and songs

 Much has changed dramatically since the university's beginning in the late 1800's (including the loss of the high dome/tower in the church toppled during the 1906 earthquake). The acres of apricot, prune, and pear orchards and farmland I knew as a child in the mid-20th century have been replaced with homes, businesses, especially high-tech companies of Silicon Valley, connected by freeways with lots of traffic. But our valley is still beautiful, the climate is about perfect. The schools and cultural opportunities are excellent, and the cultural diversity is enriching. 



Below in the background was the old women's gym pool where I learned to swim and dive from the 3 and 10 meter board.  It has now been replaced with this recreation center with its own outdoor pool. John Arrillaga lived at my grandparents' home as a student, which home he eventually bought and gave in perpetuity as home of the Athletic Director. Homes on the campus may be owned for 99 years or until the owner is no longer affiliated with Stanford (in our case, our family home, built by my grandparents in early 1920's, was returned in 2006 to the university). We miss celebrating Thanksgiving, weddings and other events there.


Roble Hall was freshman dorm for my mother and for my generation female students.

The Old Union Building where I ate some Friday dinners with my grandmother in the cafeteria. Below is the old firehouse. During my childhood a whistle blew to signify "noon" and another at 5 PM to end the work day.


Lake Lagunita's old boat ramp has not been used for about 20 years since there is little rainfall and the lake is usually dry. It was created as a reservoir in 1870, to irrigate the orchards and alfalfa fields for Stanford's stock farm. It was the site of water carnivals and huge bonfires in November (when dry) before the traditional Stanford versus Cal Berkeley "Big (football) Game."


One side of the quad leading to Tressider student Union and the Bookstore, with the libraries and other dorms and classrooms off to the left. Sandstone and Spanish tile are the typical building materials so characteristic of Stanford.

Local artists have created a BLM mural on the street in front of the Palo Alto city hall...some letters are controversial.






Most countries have sacrificed and fought, and we must continue to to fight for justice and independence and 
Liberty, Equality, Fraternity.
July 24 is Bastille Day, or la fete nationale in France. 
I enjoyed the video presentation hosted by the French Ambassador to the U.S.(below), honoring the 200,000 French citizens who live here, many of whom have made great contributions during Covid, as first responders. The long history of support and cooperation between Americans and French was applauded. Leading French athletes, chefs, astronaut, musicians, leaders of the 10 French consulates spoke! I have many fond memories of watching Bastille Day Parades with my student groups before I retired from teaching French in 2006!






Early members of the Church of Jesus Christ left homes and sometimes family in Europe and New England, to make the arduous, dangerous trek on foot, by handcart and covered wagon to escape persecution and discrimination. Thousands died, many lived, as they settled in the west, areas with desolate lands unwanted by others. We celebrate their sacrifice and faith each year as we commemorate their arrival in the Salt Lake Valley on July 27, 1847. They made the "desert bloom as a rose." They have now spread across the world. Of the 16,000,000+ members today, more live outside the United States, all united as they live by faith in the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and the knowledge that we are all brothers and sisters, children of a Heavenly Father. 

Crossing the Plains





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  As present day pioneers, (including the men and women throughout the world) we must set the patterns by teaching and exemplifying the principles we want future generations to live by. 
Good schools (mostly still closed during the pandemic) nice parks (somewhat open), where we can enjoy exercise and fresh air and camaraderie.
The small acts of kindness, toleration, forgiveness, the service we give can cast a long shadow. 


I miss my friend Ann-Kristin (my English speaking partner/tutoree) who has just returned to Sweden with her husband, a Stanford post-doc, to renew their visas. Unfortunately he will be unable to return to complete his second year, as flights not allowed into U.S. currently. International friendships, of which I am blessed to have many, help bridge divides, form bonds of understanding and appreciation.

With the Covid pandemic still not under control, even growing, we miss even those close, who feel out of reach....
Hasta luego!  Au revoir! See you again soon!